Date Night: Making Time For Fun and Romance

When was the last time you and your spouse went on a date? No, we’re not talking about the "quick dinner before rushing back to the kids" kind of date—this is all about intentional time spent just the two of you, away from work, kids, and the daily grind.

Dating in marriage is more than just a fun idea—it’s a powerful way to keep the connection alive. Over time, life can get busy, and it’s easy to slip into routine. But when we make dating a priority, we’re showing each other that we’re still important, we still care, and that spark? It’s still very much alive. Whether it’s rekindling your early days together or creating new memories, date nights can be a wonderful way to keep things fresh and fun.

So, why does dating in marriage matter?

1. It’s Time Just for the Two of You

In the chaos of everyday life, it's easy to forget that you’re a couple first. Dating creates the space to rediscover each other, talk about your hopes, dreams, and silly stories, and just enjoy being with the person who knows you best.

2. It Rekindles the Romance

Romance doesn't have to be reserved for the early stages of a relationship. Regular date nights give you the chance to flirt, laugh, and feel like you're still "courting" each other—even after years together.

3. It Keeps Communication Flowing

When you’re out of the house and out of "busy mode," it’s easier to have meaningful conversations. Whether you’re talking about the future, your favorite memories, or just what's on your minds, dates create a chance for both of you to connect on a deeper level.

Date nights are not just about getting away from the kids or the routine—they’re a chance to reconnect, laugh, and nurture the love that brought you together in the first place. Whether it’s a simple walk or an elaborate evening, the most important thing is making the effort to prioritize one another.

Need a few date night ideas? Here’s a list of ten simple and creative dates you could try:

1. Backyard Campout

Set up a tent (or just bring some blankets outside), grab some snacks, and share stories or stargaze. It’s cozy, cheap, and fun!

2. DIY Tasting Night

Pick a theme—wine, chocolate, coffee—and taste-test different varieties together. Bonus points for creating little scorecards to rate your favorites!

3. Memory Lane Walk

Visit the place where you had your first date, where you got engaged, or somewhere meaningful. Take a stroll down memory lane and reminisce about your journey together.

4. Cook a New Recipe Together

Pick a dish neither of you has ever tried making. The fun is in the process of creating something new together (and hopefully, it turns out tasty!).

5. Game Night for Two

Pull out a board game or play a card game. Try something new or revisit an old favorite. It’s an easy way to bond, laugh, and maybe get a little competitive.

6. Outdoor Adventure

If you’re both into nature, take a hike, go for a bike ride, or visit a park and enjoy the outdoors. The fresh air is refreshing, and moving together is a great way to connect.

7. Plan a Dream Trip

Even if you can’t take it right now, planning a dream vacation together can be an exciting adventure in itself. Browse destinations, talk about what you’d do there, and share your travel bucket lists.

8. Home Spa Night

Create a relaxing spa experience at home with scented candles, massages, and maybe a DIY face mask. Let it be all about pampering each other.

9. Take a Class Together

Learn something new! From pottery to painting, dancing to photography, a fun class will give you both something to look forward to and talk about long after the date.

10. Picnic Under the Stars

Pack a cozy blanket, snacks, and your favorite drinks, and enjoy an evening under the stars. You don’t need a fancy location—just each other and a peaceful moment to unwind.

Whatever you decide to do together, may you find that it brings joy, laughter and a closeness to you both!