The First Six Months of Marriage: Building Your Foundation Together

The excitement of wedding planning has passed, the vows have been exchanged, and you’ve taken that first step as a married couple. Now, after the honeymoon phase, the next chapter begins— the first six months of marriage. This period is more than just an adjustment; it’s a time to lay down a strong foundation for your life together.

Each couple’s foundation will look different, and that’s the beauty of it. The first few months are the perfect time to reflect on your values, beliefs, and hopes for the future. It’s an opportunity to get to know each other in a new way, whether it’s sharing responsibilities or figuring out how to navigate the little things together. While this period may come with challenges, it also presents an invaluable chance to shape your relationship and grow in unity.

If you’re newly married, now is the time to have those important conversations that will set the tone for your marriage. What do you each hope for the future? What are your expectations for how you’ll manage finances, household responsibilities, or even leisure time together? These conversations may seem simple but will help build trust, deepen your connection, and create a shared vision for the journey ahead.

To guide you through this first stage of marriage, I’ve created a workbook filled with thoughtful questions and practical prompts designed to spark meaningful conversations between you and your spouse. The workbook covers everything from the everyday logistics of living together to exploring the deeper, more personal aspects of your relationship. It’s meant to be a fun and interactive tool for you both—something that will encourage you to continue growing together as a couple.

As you embark on this new chapter, remember: the first six months are not just about adjusting to married life, but also about creating memories and making decisions that will shape your future. We hope that the conversations you have in this time will build a marriage that encourages, blesses, and honors both of you for years to come.